when our son went to war in jan of 2003 our world fell apart. I was laid off, everything that could break in the house did or quit working. then my husband lost his job. We both took the war down a different path and for some reason he has kept going down the path and has since been diag with bi polor, has attemped suicide, in now in a hosp because the mental health system is so poorly funded that they had him going in  circles because not one person knew what they were doing. he has applied for disability and is waiting but this is his second trip to the mental hosp. I cant find any help with any of our utilities, or our mortgage payment. we have filed bankruptcy and it is pretty much done now but his ailment is keeping him from finding a job. he has worked hard and provided well and we are going on 30 years of marriage. where can i get some answers for any assistance.  thanks karen